10 Most Popular Myths Christian Parents Believe

This will be a 10 week Posting, Stay tuned…..  10 Most Popular Myths Christian Parents Believe.

Answers to the question:

Why do Christian Parents  choose to Educate their children in a School that excludes Christ?


“No one will read this!” This has been the feedback we have received from some who proofed this writing. They contend that most people are no longer willing to read anything more than a “sound bite.” They tell us that the average person just wants the bottom line or the Cliffs Notes version. “Just email me, or better yet, text me- it’s quicker. “Our “bottom line” to you: please give this writing ten minutes of your time. Using the power and truth of Biblical principles, it contains information that may change your life and the life of your children forever.


A Difficult Message to Write

We have taken six months to write this booklet. It has been critiqued by parents, grandparents, and teachers both in the Christian and public school sectors. Some have said the message is terrific. Others have said it is preachy or self-righteous. Still others said it was harsh. We listened to the criticisms and made changes that we hoped would remove any tone that would offend while not changing the truths herein.

We understand that what we have written will not win the praise of the world. However, we are not seeking that praise. This booklet is designed to bring truth to minds of Christian parents who choose to have their children educated in a public school or a private non-Christian school. It is not directed to home school parents or non-Christian parents.

We could ignore what is going on in our culture and say nothing, but that would not be Biblical. Christians are called to be truth tellers, even when what we say may be unpopular. Please know our heart on this: we have written this booklet because we love the Lord, love the brethren, and love children. Psalm 40:9-11 says, “I have proclaimed glad tidings of righteousness in the great congregation; Behold, I will not restrain my lips, O LORD, You know. I have not hidden Your righteousness within my heart; I have spoken of Your faithfulness and Your salvation; I have not concealed Your loving kindness and Your truth from the great congregation.” Our hope is that God will bless the sharing of His truth through this booklet.

Special note to Christian public school teachers and administrators: this booklet cites some of the unbiblical weaknesses of the public school in America. Please do not read this as a personal attack. We appreciate that you do not agree with the philosophy of the public schools and want to encourage you to be a warrior for Christ in that setting. Although we do not believe that Christ intended for children to be missionaries in the public school, He does intend Christian adults to speak His truth boldly wherever they are. We urge you to trust the Lord as you follow your calling.


You have probably heard the term “like a frog in the kettle.” It refers to a situation where the frog sits in room temperature water in the kettle and neither knows nor feels the subtle changes that are happening in the water. Degree after degree, the water increases in heat and eventually the frog is boiled to death.

So it is with many Christian families in America. With the decline of Christianity in our culture and many in the American church behaving more like the world, many Christian families are being boiled to death. Instead of realizing that there is a continual increase in the cultural temperature, Christian parents are being fooled again and again, believing misinformation that is killing the spiritual life of their children.

What about you? Are you being fooled? Have you bought into the secular perspectives that we are constantly bombarded with each day? Have you taken the time and energy to question the so called “facts” that we are fed from all angles? Please read and consider the ten myths that Christian parents frequently believe. You still have time to jump out of the kettle.

Myth 1:

I am saving money by not paying Christian school tuition.

Actually, the costs to parents for not sending their child to a Christian school are potentially much greater. First, Jesus forces us to answer this question about what parents think is most important for their children:

“For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and forfeit his soul?” Mark 8:36  In other words, what have you gained financially if you have lost your child’s soul for all eternity? There are no guarantees that a child will become a follower of Christ due solely to their school environment, but don’t you want to give your child the very best opportunity to hear God’s Word daily and believe it by attending a Christian school? Then there are the monetary costs to consider that dramatically undermine the belief that parents are saving money by sending their children to a public school:

  • According to Eduventures, Inc., a Boston- based market research and consulting company, American rents are spending billions of dollars per year on private tutoring because their children are not being properly educated. This spending has grown 7-10 percent each year for the last three years.
  • Additionally, there is a quality of education cost when a student is not accepted into a quality college of choice because of a poor K-12education.
  • There is a cost to parents when they are forced to pay at the college level for their children to take high school level remedial courses before they are allowed to take core level classes. This is a monetary cost and a time cost as obtaining a college degree may be stretched to five years or more.
  • There is a cost to parents of tens of thousands of dollars more in college loans when their child doesn’t qualify for scholarship or grant opportunities due to a lack of quality K-12 education.
  • All of the above may result in the greatest monetary cost- the difference in pay between a job that requires greater educational qualifications and one that requires less over the 40 year period of work that is ahead for the graduate.


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Cherokee Christian Schools



Cherokee Christian Schools, Inc.

3075 Trickum Road | Woodstock, GA 30188 | 678-494-KING



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Cherokee Christian Schools admits students of any race, color, national and ethnic origin to all the rights, privileges, programs and activities made available to students of the school. It does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national and ethnic origin in administration of its educational and admission policies, scholarship and loan programs, and athletic and other school administered programs.





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